Hi Di
I am truly sorry for your loss. As a grief counselor , i often hear people say the exact words you have said.
You are already taking your personal tragedy and sending a positive message to others.
Often times people that are grieving to do not think about others, especially people they do not know personally.
You may never know how many people you have helped by sending this message.
Your message has just traveled the world, Just think of that.
I am so sorry you and your family have lost your loved one.
It is so true that our character grows during the tough times in our lives.
It is just hard to see when in the midst of the pain.